REMOVE ALL THE TOXIC PEOPLE AROUND YOU
This is so important and this is the first things you should do; is remove all the toxic people from your life. They could be your family members, friends, boyfriends/girlfriend, husband/wife, co-workers. Don’t stay in a toxic enviroment, as soon as you realize that the people around you are making you become toxic then it’s time to remove yourself. Don’t wait hoping things are going to change for the better.. no sweetie they won’t.
DO NOT DATE
Dating is so hard nowadays, you could meet someone you like then all of the sudden you find yourself in their little mind game. So if you don’t want to loose your mind and get hurt, do not date.. Date when you feel emotionally and physically ready.
GET YOURSELF BUSY
Yes, get yourself busy. Start working out, go back to school, go out with a few friends you got or go out alone, get to know yourself. Start a business that will make your mind busy. Take singing classes, take boxing classes, all in all.. get yourself busy.
DON’T WATCH THE NEWS
This is what I personally do. Tell me when, is the last time you heard something positive in the news? Never. So don’t look at them; some people will say “but how can you know what’s going on in the world” You will know, ’cause when something very bad or important thing did/is happening they will alert you through your phone, computer or tv.
DON’T GET STUCK ON SAD MUSICS
Like yes, if you’re sad and listening to sad musics and crying is your way of pouring your emotions then that’s fine. But don’t get stuck on it, go on with your life! You can’t stop your life for someone or something. We have 365 days in a year and you want to stop living because of those couple days you feel/felt bad or even worse…someone made you feel bad? No! Be sad, cry, eat bad then the next day put on makeup and say to yourself that; You’re a very good girl, you have a pure heart and you attract only positivity in your life (and believe in what you’re saying too) then go on with your life.
People say that they feel very good after traveling, and I can say this is true. I haven’t travelled a lot, but these few times I’ve travelled I’ve feel like a brand new human being like I’ve been born again > I see the world different. You will learn about the other culture and you’ll realize some things that are taboo in your country is very normal in other countries. You may also find your new home, who knows?
THE POWER OF SILENCE
This one is very very important. By this I mean do not spill your tea(s), keep them to yourself. For ex. You’re about to start a business and you’re like really inspired and motivated.. (Omg, I’m so bad at explaining things but basically what I’m trying to say); Don’t tell anyone that you’re starting something, because we are humans and our minds can change or something can happen that will make you postpone your plan and then those people you went to tell all your business to, will wonder and ask you ” So, where’s the project?” “didn’t you say you wanted to start a makeup business? “. Yes, girl that’s annoying.. So get the work done first then when you have the papers, keys etc. in your hands, then go talk.
START WORKING OUT
I started to workout like 3 month ago, I don’t go that often anymore and it’s kinda sad but I am trying to workout at least 2-3 times a week. But, working out helps you not only physically but mentally too, I swear. I was so depressed, overweight and lazy as f***, but as soon as I started to workout, I became more active, started to loose weight, looked more happy and I really did just enjoy life. When I was 10kg bigger than now, I thought that people where judging my weight, clothes the way I looked… etc. But as soon as I started to become active, It was like “Wow, there is hope in humanity, lol”.
I’m a christian so I believe in God, Jesus Christ. And always when you feel alone and down pray. When you feel happy pray. When you’re worried about something pray , what ever you’re feeling just pray. What ever your religion is, pray. Sometimes we have to just let go and let God.